Sunday, December 4, 2011

To My Independent Ladies

Guys, go for the ladies who have no time.

I know this doesn’t make sense, but let me shed some light for you. The girls in my life are amazing, and it’s because they’re doing big things with their lives. Independent womyn are always busy and on a schedule. In other words, we’re not hiding guys.. we just always have things to take care of. We work or go to school full-time, sometimes both. We take care of siblings, parents, or other family members. We’re too tired to party, so we sleep in and stay home during our free time. Days are off dedicated to running errands and doing homework. Going out to us is considered: coffee shops, grocery shopping, school events, or the movies. We spend more time in our own heads than with others, but when we decide to go out we wholeheartedly let our company know they’re appreciated. Though, sarcasm and delirium is always present. And since we’re always on-the-go, when we get to wind down and relax, we are able to indulge in the simple and smallest things— naps, family/friend time, dessert. Surely, this entails that we know how to have fun when it’s necessary. It doesn’t take much to please us. We’re just grateful y’all stick around despite our lack of time and energy when we’re with you, and we love you with all my heart, mind, and soul.

Now, i say go for the ladies who have no time because they are the ones who don’t tolerate immature games, petty bullshit, and failure. We don’t have time to pick fights, cry over ridiculous matters, regress, or be insecure with the relationships in our lives. In fact, we try to stay away from negativity and anyone or anything that will hold us back from growing. We are always inspired to be better, do better, and maintain happiness. We associate with feeling: compassionate, determined, and caring than jealous, immature, and disrespectful. We believe being broken is beautiful and struggle exists to make us better in the end. We love with all that we have, and understand that life may not go our way, but we sure as hell aren’t going to give up. A womyn who MAKES time for you, is the one who will appreciate you and make every moment worth it when you’re with her. This is because her time is limited, and she knows how to manage it very well. She is accustomed to priorities, deadlines, goals, and dreams; so, let’s just say you were unique and extraordinary enough to make her take time out of her busy schedule to be with you. We commend and welcome you to our busy lives. But the flip side is, you’ll always be moving upward and onward with nurturing love within reach, because ladies with no time are always transcending and persevering for their aspirations and life goals. Question is, do you have the potential and understanding to want to stay. We just hope you’re ready for the ride.
(Source: ventilated.tumblr.com)


One of my friend posted this as her status on her facebook and I couldn't agree more on the subject. This is an independent woman and this is what I strive to be.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

DIY Skull Sweater

I love the idea of this sweater and it seems pretty simple. I'm sure you can find a baggy sweater for cheap at F21 and a skull stencil on google. Hope it comes out right!

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Song of the Moment l Kaskade - Eyes




Photography - Malibu Creek State Park


I finally got around to posting some pictures of my hike at Malibu Creek State Park. A good friend of mine told me that there were some great hiking spots up there so I grabbed my brother, his finance, and John for a chance to get out of town to see something new! The hike itself was only about 3 miles round trip but there was a beautiful hidden Rock Pool and a bridge that we took pictures on. It's always refreshing to get out of Orange County to check out the rest of California.

Dance: Pumped up Kicks l Dubstep

One of my friend found this and I thought I'll share. Couldn't take my eyes off him!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Imogen Heap - Speeding Cars


One of my favorite artist of all time.

"there, there baby
it's just text book stuff
it's in the ABC of growing up..."

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Quote of the Day

"there's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up. it's realizing that you don't need certain people and their crap."


Sometimes you just need to get away from it all and redirect all the attention to focus on yourself and what you want. I wouldn't be able to count how many times I put my own time and things aside to help others around me only to come back and realized I haven't completed anything for myself. I think growing up is about having the balance between the two.

Adele's VMA 2011 Performance

This song gives me the chills every time. I love how simple she is. Just a simple black dress and a piano with a powerful message. It would be nice if her nails weren't so out there though,a bit distracting in my opinion.

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